Monday, March 28, 2016

Invest In Your Most Important Asset!

Now that we are almost three months into the New Year – what have you done to improve or strengthen your most important intimate relationship?  Or consider – what is your personal growth plan for your most important intimate relationship? 


All too many times people want to know what happened to their relationship – I often hear “I feel like I am living with my room mate” or that “the spark is no longer there.”  Part of the problem is that many people do not think of making conscious investments in their relationships.  They think that it should be spontaneous and requires nothing more than just showing up!  I remind them to reflect on where else in your life you need to just show up and things improve.  Try just showing up at the gym or in your yard or when it comes to maintenance on your home or with your health.  Nothing improves by just showing up without putting forth any effort. 


The death-bed literature claims that when you ask people where they wished they would have put forth more effort – it is always the relationship. So as the advertisers tout – don’t delay, act today and reap the benefits of a well-nurtured relationship. 


Here are a few quick tips:

  •  Go for a walk together – Spring is here! 
  •  Practice a random acts of kindness throughout the week with each other!
  • Go out on a date with each – take turns as to who plans!
  • Tell your partner something s/he does not know about you!
  • Take time to kiss and mean it!


OK – now it’s up to you to take action and start enjoying the best year ever with your partner – make it fun, pleasurable and intimate!

Want to schedule time to learn more about Relationship or Sex Therapy, call 248-906-8301 today! 


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