This is the 8th question in my survey and asks:
8. Are you more sexually
comfortable:
(A) dealing
with spontaneous creative stirrings, or
(B) engaging
in a pleasurable routine?
There was a definite agreement on this question, the majority
of all participants across all categories preferred dealing with spontaneous
creative stirrings. The results were 70%
for (A) and 30% for (B). A good follow
up question to know would have been: What percentage of the time do you actually
engage in spontaneous creative stirrings?
While many people claim this preference, from a therapeutic standpoint
many seek therapy because there sexual life has gone dormant or one partner has
lost interest because of the lack of spontaneity or variety. The research suggests in may fields related
and unrelated to sex indicate that novelty is what keeps things fresh. One suggestion I have for couples is that
periodically take turns introducing something new and or different in their
sexual relationship to keep it fresh and exciting. So what do you do to keep it interesting?
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