What’s Your Sexual Preference?
BEITER SEXUAL PREFERENCE INDICATOR
This
is the 13th question in my survey and asks:
13. Is sexual
activity more enjoyable if you feel
(A) emotionally
connected, or
(B) physically
aroused?
Some
readers might find it surprising that more than half [60%] of the men surveyed want
to feel emotionally connected along with 70% of the women. Based on cultural messages many of us have received
through the years, the thought that most men would connect sexual activity with
physical sensations would likely seem to be the norm. However, this question reminds us that there
is a lot of unspoken communication that if taken advantage of could further
enhance our relationships and deepen our bonds of intimacy. On the flip side many would not be surprised
that a majority of the women have connected the sexual with the emotional. This should make us wonder if this is the
case then what messages do women receive that are different from men in shaping
their experiences of sex and sexuality? Use the question to explore your
relationship and ask what it means to feel emotionally connected. From a therapeutic perspective – not being
emotionally connected is what brings a lot of couples into therapy.
To take the BSPI Survey visit: BSPISurvey.com
For the Beiter Sex Intimacy Indicator Survey visit: BSIISurvey.com
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