Tuesday, November 28, 2017

BSPI Question 18

What’s Your Sexual Preference?


         Found at:

 This is the 18th question in my survey and asks:


18.  Would you rather have a sexual partner who is

(A)  comfortable with suggesting new ideas, or [A]

(B)  satisfied with the practiced and familiar? [H]


We are creatures of habit and the survey responses confirm it!  Over 90% of both women and men are satisfied with the practiced and familiar, with the men slightly more so at 95%.


What this says about our sexual relationships is that we can get pretty comfortable in a routine but we should caution ourselves not to get too familiar.  When it becomes too well known it can become boring and eventually may lessen its appeal to be sought after.  We need to learn to refresh our relationships from time to time.  As the survey reminds, not all the time, but in the interest of keeping it vibrant and growing, the relationship will benefit by periodically trying something new. 


The caution here is to not take it for granted but to remind each other how much you love and value one another.  I would suggest telling your partner one thing you experienced while being sexually intimate that made the time together special.


Men responded A=5 / H=95

Women A=9 /  H=91


To take the BSPI Survey visit: 

 For the Beiter Sex Intimacy Indicator Survey visit:

No comments:

Post a Comment